Where do I start?

We built a house last year, but didn't get moved in until a couple days before Christmas--and as it was a "partial build", we're doing all the finish work. (Cabinets, flooring, trim, paint, etc.) and have seriously had our hands full. I had ordered chicks from Ideal, figuring we'd have a coop and run built by the late April ship date.
But the hubs...was not happy. He felt I was rushing him with us having so much else to do.
So I cancelled the order, and now I'm just trying to be patient. But I've been patient for almost ten years. Not sure it's patience anymore--feels more like resignation.