I hear you about the landlord stuff

after my father died, we inherited half an apartment, where our aunt is renting

I think the past decade, we have put more money in than gotten .. at first, our aunt was also complaining about all the stuff she wanted done ( like a broken tile in the bathroom, doorbell didn’t work) did I mention we live about 450 km away ?! Anyways, we reduced rent, over the years almost everything got made new or renovated ( balcony, windows, roof, siding, elevator) since it’s a house with 8 renters, it gets decided among all owners what is to be done

thank God my sister attends these meetings, they go way into the night….

after all these years, our aunt has finally realized we are not there to rip her off but we just try the best we can, but should she ever pass on, the first thing I’m doing is getting rid of my half
