"The sun will still come up tomorrow"--my dad reminding us our concerns are insignificant and won't impact the universe. Very comforting!!
Also, "Don't let worries about the future rob you of present joy" Don't know where I saw this, but it is good advice.
I saw this on a bulletin board in a highschool classroom. I wrote it down many years ago.
If you always do what you always did
You will always get what you always got
Jackie Malbey
And for the moms of teenagers( not exclusively)
Fall in love with your children again
wait until the house goes to bed and go in and sit with them asleep. Be grateful and think about all the things you love about them- so peaceful, quiet, angelic. Love them.
I'm going to try this tonight with my particularly difficult 13 year old son with ADHD
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Thank you for this. I read through this entire thread twice to find it again. I have been using this one daily but wasn't exactly sure of the wording. Love it!
There are two that comes to my mind instantly that I heard more than once growing up.
My dad would always tell me "Kill them with kindness" when someone was mean to me. It always worked great.. and I made many friends over the years by just being nice, even when the situation called for kicking butt.
My Grandmother probably gave me the best advice though. "Learn when to keep your mouth shut!" Now that was a tough one!
My Grandpa....one of the smartest old time farmers/native americans I will ever meet I am sure, told me when I was a kid... I will give a man a crutch, but I wont hold it up for him. Took me many years to understand that one...but it is now my main way of thinking.
Sorry...I didn't read thru all of them and I'm sorry if this one has been mentioned but now more than ever, it means the most to us. God will not put on you more than you can handle.