I’m sorry @Celticdragonfly, my post above may have come across as rude, which it was not meant to be. After seeing the post following mine, maybe I read your post wrong. I thought your post was asking how “not to get attached to the chicks,” which is impossible for me. I get attached to every single one that’ll let me. So my answer was to “not get chicks.”
Maybe you did mean “how to not get males.”
Truly I’m sorry.
I also read that as getting too attached before you knew what sex they really were. A situation that occurred to me just this year. Don't be too hard on yourself. Assuming that we read it correct, your response was quite funny and made me giggle. If not, I don't think it was that mean spirited. I would hope they would understand you meant no offense.