First off I am glad you made it through your painful past. I can relate.
I accindentally got a book by Lisa Williams called Life amoung the Dead.Thought I was ordering a zombie book,lol.Anyway I read the whole thing and found it to be pretty darn neat. I recall one quote you might like: Nothing clutters the mind like the past.Let go of the anger and pain. Sent that to my relative newly in jail who blames everyone for everything in the past.
If I had money I would set up my home the way I really want it with coops,greenhouses,a pool,and another garage.I would buy a few nearby houses so I could set up my mom,dying friend with kids,and hanicapped friend.I want to be able to look out my window and wave to them,visit them daily,and help them.
I would send my kids and theirs to learn useful skills.
Then I would help strangers. I would not want anyone to know we had lots of money,because I have seen how those people are hounded.