What would you do in this situation?

[Organics North]

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Here is my two cents.. First clearly (straight forward and blunt.) tell him you are not interested in a relationship, and you are sure he will find a nice girl. If he still bothers you..Then Emzyyy's advice of hanging with some of your guy friends when he is around sounds like it could work. If not and you still notice he is watching you then you could take concern, and follow some of the advice given such as contacting authorities.

Most likely just a dumb boy with the hots for a nice gal.

Be careful! Follow your instinct on what actions you need to take if any..

ON

 

[Chickerdoodle13]

Just a little update:

I spoke to a friend I sit next to in that class and she had noticed that he was bothering me. I told her I was going to move my seat to the other side of her and as luck would have it, most of the seats on that side were open this morning. He was already in the room when I arrived, so I just went and sat in another seat. I didn't have any contact with him at all today. Should he try and move his seat to sit closer to me, I will tell him that I want nothing to do with him, that I am not interested as a friend or a girlfriend.

So I guess I will just have to see how this all pans out. I doubt just moving my seat will deter him, but at least I have peace of mind not having to sit right next to him! Several people in that class know how he is and they are keeping an eye on him. So right now I am hoping nothing else will come of it, but I am also preparing myself for further action.

 

[gardenmom]

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Good luck to you Chickerdoodle! We're all hoping this turns out ok. I recently read a book called The Gift of Fear, by Gavin De Becker. It was a real eye opener for me as I have led a pretty sheltered life. But that little voice inside that warns us of things warrants listening to. Its there to protect us. This book is a national bestseller. Its worthy of anyones attention.