WHAT YA GOT SWAP Chat Thread

[doubleatraining]

Not clear at all. I am so tickled at how clearly I am able to see inside them. Shelby and I where talking about how cute they are. Not sure why, I just love the color of them! All of those eggs are developing! Every one of them. My incubator will explode with chicks soon, well soonish.

Oh ok good. Holy Cow I'm glad all of them are developing!! I can't wait to see pictures of all the chicks. They will def be a incubator/brooder FULL. The hen is awesome. I bought her on a whim and she will live here for the rest of her life. She isn't even that personable....just something about her that I really like. I can't remember....did I send you any BSL??

 

[GableBabble]

Yes you did. I actually like BSL's, they are sweet birds who lay eggs like a turbo machine.

 

[Zgoatlady]

So my day has been pretty long. Went to the store, went to get all the plants for our garden this year. Got ready to start the Goose runs. Father-in-law showed up and ignored me. He just turned his head as I talked to him and walked off. Have you guys ever had in-laws who hate you? Mine have since I married my husband. His mother even forbade anyone from coming to our wedding, so only my family was there. We have been married for 16 years. I am PMSing maybe, but I wonder when will this end. All I said to him was "Good morning! How is your day going?". I actually sat in the middle of the dirt and cried over this. Argh
But anyway, got some new runs started for my Dewlap Toulouse, and Sebbies. Got all the houses and runs cleaned. Danced a jig over my eggs in the incubator that are developing (I can see so clearly into the blue eggs! Alex? Beth?)
So anyone have in-laws who hate them, but a Hubbie who adores them? If so, how do you deal?

Im so sorry, I do. But my in law like me and talk to me than all of a sudden start yelling at me that I dont know what Im doing and that Im a A -- so yes I so understand. When my husband told me I was going to homeschool my youngest they told me I was stupid to do it oh and to make sure he wasnt a lefty because only stupid people are leftys. Yep you got it my son is a lefty.
A few years back they came at me and I let them have it and my husband told me to take the kids and leave so I did. I told him I was never going over there again and understood since he saw how bad they treated me. Well when Nove rolled around they called and said they were sorry and to please forgive them. I said ok. But I still dont trust them becasue they ask me something than tell me how stupid I am. Oh and they keep saying how many goats do you have, the last time I said one and that the rest are my sons. They havent asked that in a while now.

 

[Zgoatlady]

not really sure. They say I am stuck up. They blame me for any argument Hubbie has with them. We do not have anything to do with his mother, sister, neice, and great nephew b/c of abuse issues when our kids where younger. Also how they choose to live their life. I actually incourage him to be involved with his mother. Mothers are a bit irreplacable, and I know he loves her. His Dad, no idea really... Normally he used to talk to me all the time. We used to share chicken stories and chickens. He came over on my birthday, never said a word to me, ignored me when I talked. Never called my oldest on her birthday. Hubbie had to call him and ask him why. He showed up today with 30 bucks for her, and a Happy Birthday.
Hubbie dated a girl before me that they loved. LOL her picture is still on his mothers wall. I am just not sure why she dislikes me.

Oh my gosh, I never get a card on my birthday but you bet they let me know its there day and when will I be there. The dont give my oldest any thing for his birthday also. I wonder if we have the same ones.

 

[GableBabble]

Mine never come at me face to face regularly. Mostly it is behind my back. Or I would be talking to them, get up to go get something/tinkle/etc, come back then they are smiling while I am talking. I find out later they; started rumors about me and the oldest child/ making fun of me/fixing to start a war b/c Hubbie bought me something nice and did not get them anything. The father though, just cannot understand.
I can relate, alot of my trust issues came from my in-laws actions.

Lmao, maybe they are cut from the same cloth!

 

[CapricornFarm]

I went to the swap at TSC today and met Marie! It was so nice to finally put a face with a name. Got some really cute young polish from her! Sold some chickens then went home and sold more

 

[crossgirl]

Got my eggs from a side swap with Beth. Pretty, pretty blue! All arrived intact, packaged so well. Gracie is covering them just fine plus one from my frizzle. I'm so excited! I finally see why the colored eggs are so appealing!

Gable, I never had a bad experience when I was married. Well never a bad with the inlaws, they were the good part of the family, it was the spouse that was the problem! Sorry that man made you cry. Not cool to have a beef with you but not tell you what it is.

 

[anderson8505]

Sorry

GableBabble & Zgoatlady for your inlaws!

My first husband had two sets of parents bec of divorce. Both sets have issues, the ones closest to me in distance are just really SELFISH and favor one brother's kids over all the rest. It's so obvious-- at Christmas the favored brother's kids get great stuff; the rest get crap. The other set blamed me for everything and are SELFISH, but thankfully, we don't live in the same state anymore. Not surprisingly, that husband was and is SELFISH too.

My second marriage is very very different, great inlaws. I miss his mother, Grace. She was a truly wonderful woman.

I learned from the first marriage to meet the parents first before signing the papers. I think that "the apple doesn't fall far from the tree" in most families, but some can rise above their parents' stupidity. My first husband ate all the apples from that tree. He's on his third marriage and 2nd bankruptcy, and really really sucks as a parent to my daughter.

 

[BHep]

Not clear at all. I am so tickled at how clearly I am able to see inside them. Shelby and I where talking about how cute they are. Not sure why, I just love the color of them! All of those eggs are developing! Every one of them. My incubator will explode with chicks soon, well soonish.

 

[BHep]

Got my eggs from a side swap with Beth. Pretty, pretty blue! All arrived intact, packaged so well. Gracie is covering them just fine plus one from my frizzle. I'm so excited! I finally see why the colored eggs are so appealing!

Gable, I never had a bad experience when I was married. Well never a bad with the inlaws, they were the good part of the family, it was the spouse that was the problem! Sorry that man made you cry. Not cool to have a beef with you but not tell you what it is.