Sorry this may be long. I get woke up by my son he's 3 hours away and he is complaining about his wife. I want to tell him to dump her but, then if I did it would be thrown back in my face. They always seem to work things out but, a few days or the next day he's calling me again. She is a drunk and spends his money runs up the credit card he has then, she goes and gets a new credit card then, get's fired from her job. My son, is in the military about to deploy and he has a hazard job any way but, she emails him complaining and crying so, I am at my wits end with it she has lied to him about allot of important stuff she now has to have a breath thing installed in her car. She can't even drive it. She's had too many DUI's and of course she never told him until they got married and he had to pay for it all because she don't have a job. He's only 20 she is 25 and has all kinds of guys texting and calling her. They have not even been married for a year. I just wish he would leave her. He has talked about driving his truck off a cliff. When is enough enough?