Did your DH know this about you when you married him?
Personally, if you have no want for children, I think it's unfair (to yourself and the future children) to have them just because someone else wants you to. I think you could quite possibly end up resenting the future children and that would not be good for anyone.
Even if DH was primary caretaker, you would still have an active part in it and would stll be mom, obviously.
(((Hugs))) What a hard decision.
Also wanted to add, a friend of mine was so not a baby person. Swore she'd never have kids. She got married and ended up getting pregnant (suprise!). It ended up being great for her, BUT it doesn't always end up that way and could definitely end up being a very bad thing.
Personally, if you have no want for children, I think it's unfair (to yourself and the future children) to have them just because someone else wants you to. I think you could quite possibly end up resenting the future children and that would not be good for anyone.
Even if DH was primary caretaker, you would still have an active part in it and would stll be mom, obviously.
(((Hugs))) What a hard decision.
Also wanted to add, a friend of mine was so not a baby person. Swore she'd never have kids. She got married and ended up getting pregnant (suprise!). It ended up being great for her, BUT it doesn't always end up that way and could definitely end up being a very bad thing.
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