Hi,
We recently added to our tiny flock of 3 with 2 rescues (see my previous post for details).
I have a few questions:
1) how long does it typically take new members to actually assimilate with old members? Right now, the group of 3 stays together, and the group of 2 stays together. They DO sleep together (yay!), but they don't eat together -- and I'm a little concerned about this because it seems one of the newbies is quite bossy. I will bring them treats in two bowls, and no matter how far apart the bowls are from each other, the "boss" will sidle over to my girls treats and then all my girls move away. She doesn't actually peck at them or eat their food, it's like she's just keeping them from their food - even though she has her own!! What's even more frustrating, is this bossy one frequently won't even eat EITHER treat bowl; it's like she's just trying to keep everyone away then she leaves, but my girls are afraid, so then they stay away too.
2) should I stay with the older girls while they eat, as a deterrent for this behavior, or let them just work it out? I think my girls are super wimps though, and I'm afraid they'll just forego eating in order to avoid conflict which concerns me.
3) we are going to be away for a few days a week from now -- I will have someone checking on the girls. Is there anything I can do to ensure that my girls get enough food & water while we're gone? Or should I expect they'll assimilate by that time?
We recently added to our tiny flock of 3 with 2 rescues (see my previous post for details).
I have a few questions:
1) how long does it typically take new members to actually assimilate with old members? Right now, the group of 3 stays together, and the group of 2 stays together. They DO sleep together (yay!), but they don't eat together -- and I'm a little concerned about this because it seems one of the newbies is quite bossy. I will bring them treats in two bowls, and no matter how far apart the bowls are from each other, the "boss" will sidle over to my girls treats and then all my girls move away. She doesn't actually peck at them or eat their food, it's like she's just keeping them from their food - even though she has her own!! What's even more frustrating, is this bossy one frequently won't even eat EITHER treat bowl; it's like she's just trying to keep everyone away then she leaves, but my girls are afraid, so then they stay away too.
2) should I stay with the older girls while they eat, as a deterrent for this behavior, or let them just work it out? I think my girls are super wimps though, and I'm afraid they'll just forego eating in order to avoid conflict which concerns me.
3) we are going to be away for a few days a week from now -- I will have someone checking on the girls. Is there anything I can do to ensure that my girls get enough food & water while we're gone? Or should I expect they'll assimilate by that time?