I'm the sharpening fanatic, here. I do most of the cooking, so it's ok. And DH knows to expect sharp knives! Once in awhile I lose small bit of finger or something......but less often than if I have to use a dull knife, the extra pressure needed tends to make me more prone to slipping and sticking myself.
Gritstar, I hope you didn't need stitches or anything. Many, many, many, moons ago, I had a boyfriend who cut his index finger really badly, (in the kitchen) there was a small artery cut, he had to have stitches, and there was nerve damage. I don't know if he ever got the feeling back in his fingertip.
All of your spouses really should warn you when they've sharpened the knives. Maybe you could convince them to put up a post-it or something, so you'll know. "Warning,warning, danger, Will Robinson! Sharp knives!"
ETA: Ok, I see no stitches, that's good!
I know it was an accident, but I can just see it.....Hmmpf! Sharpen things without telling me again, see what I break next time!