Barred Rock pullets have one barring gene so are darker overall, usually with dark wash down their legs. Barred Rock cockerels have two barring genes, making them lighter overall with little to no dark down the leg fronts. Both black sex link males and both Barred Rock sexes have head spots.
Here's a 6 week old brother and sister.
Here's a 3 week old BR cockerel. A black sexlink male would look similar:
Here's a 6 week old brother and sister.

Here's a 3 week old BR cockerel. A black sexlink male would look similar:
