I love my teens to bits!! My older girl is 19 and at uni but we speak every few days on the phone - and in between when she needs advice on boys, work, etc etc. she is a lovely girl and we always say I love you whenever we speak or see each other. She always wants hugs, especially if I wake her in the morning when she is at home. My younger girl is 16 and still at home. I love her to bits too and we are very close. She suffers from anxiety a fair bit and we talk this through together - I will miss her when she goes to uni in 18mths. The house will be very empty when they are both away.