To start off, I raised my kids (boy and girl now 9 & 10) for roughly their first 7 years of life as a single mom. Their biological dad chose to be uninvolved after our separation and subsequent divorce. Then 3 years ago I got remarried to a wonderful man who loves my kids as though they are his own. My ex-husband decided that he suddenly wanted to be involved...but 7 + years of no-shows and no support made me say no. (And please no advice about whether or not he should or shouldn't get to see the kids...I'm leaving out large portions of the story to spare some typing. That question is not what this post is about) Fast forward to now and I discover that a cousin who I only see 2X a year has uploaded pics of myself, my various family members, and my CHILDREN to facebook without my permission. Guess what happened before I realized her pics were made PUBLIC? You got it: the ex husband who has been quoted as threatening to kidnap my children and "shoot" my husband stole several pics from her profile and now have them displayed on his own. The only reason I know this is because a relative told me at our get-together today that she saw my kids on my ex's profile. I sent the relative a polite but firm email requesting that she remove the pics or at least make them private for family only and now she's mad AT ME! What kind of moron posts pictures of underage children online to be made PUBLIC without the permission of their parents? Is it just me or would you be angry as well? Oh and to make it better, the ex husband mislabelled a nephew of mine as "his son" when the child is actually no relation. The child in question's mother just LOVED that.