I am seeking input on a situation I’m sure many new chicken keepers face. I am a new backyard chicken owner and did what I will never do again, get 4 chicks from Tractor Supply instead of sexed chicks from a hatchery. They are 12 weeks old and I now have a Cochin Bantam cockerel who started crowing this week for 2 hours straight each morning. I live within city limits and it’s illegal to have a rooster. This scenario is breaking my heart because I already love him. I have only had one person show interest in taking him and letting him live on his farm with his already established hen flock. I have read on here not to do that because he is still young and much smaller than they are. I hate for him to go somewhere by himself when he’s used to being with the other 3 pullets. Will he be ok? Will he miss his ladies back home? Will he adjust to this change? Is this going to ruin his life? I feel TERRIBLE. I even offered to let the girls go with him just so that he isn’t lonely, but the person only wants him to protect his current flock. Am I putting too much emotion into this because I don’t know a lot about chicken behavior? Thanks in advance!