I think that being a senior (I don't know the definition but I am sure I am one!) means you get to do what you want without apologizing to anyone.Applebees has always felt homey to me. It's actually been in my life for 20+ years. I have always been happy to go there. Sourland, there are so many that you may be able to find another one. My DD doesn't like it, so maybe I should just not ask her to go!
If you want to go to Applebees you should go! Is there anyone else who could go with you? Maybe someone from your church or a neighbor. It could be a fun evening out.