Sorry you went thru that, how awful! I would report him, and I would seek legal advice. No one should be treated like that. Self medicate through alcohol< what a joke!
I can't believe they talked like that right in front of you. I would have been grabbing his hand and pushing him out of my way, and saying How do you expect me to act if you didn't even numb me? How freaking rude, and I would have let that assistant have it too, while talking loud enough for other patients to hear.
I had a bad dentist, he was just not very competent, he wasn't rude. I was terrified of dentists. I go to a great place now, but had a root canal done, and I felt everything. My dentist knew cause I was squirming . He stopped and re medicated, and every time I flinched he re medicated. It just didn't work, no matter what he tried. He asked me If I wanted him to stop, take a break, You could tell he felt compassion. I just said get this over with! I will not go thru it again though, unless it is a front tooth or something. I don't feel the numb meds work well on me! My heart even pounds out of my chest!
Please let us know what you decide to do! If you have any marks, or swelling get a picture of it.