Your DD sounds a lot like mine. (but she plays clarinet instead of flute) She does dance (tap, ballet, & lyrical) & 4H. Daily house chores include caring for our 2 dogs and feeding the chickens. During the school year, I must do the cleaning of the coop, because she leaves for band at 6:45am.
Our daughters do sound a lot alike My daughter does tap and ballet. This is her first year of pointe.She used to do acro too but since pointe was starting this year, ballet and tap were split in to two classes and we can only manage two for now so she chose to continue with tap. My son plays clarinet. They alternate weekly with the daily chores. One week, one does dishes while the other runs the vacuum. I take care of the dogs but DD has her own bunny that she cares for. Over the summer, she's always out there helping me with the coop chores. They're lucky enough to have band class in school so they don't need to be there early or late but they still need to be on the bus at 7:10am and don't get home till 3:30. With dance 45 minutes away, those nights are really nuts lol.