Abby's mom :
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I'm not going to argue with you. As you said, all people are different. And so they heal differently. To each their own.. As its a very personal thing..
I just know how some of these people think..
i am fascinated how there can be such a difference of opinion.
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Thanks Redhen, I just couldn't put it into words right.
Deb1, I never said that anyone should be pushed into forgiveness. I never push anyone.
I wasn't directing my comment at you. I was talking in generalities. Sorry. I should have made myself more clear.
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Actually, you don't. I will never forgive my attackers, what they did was unforgivable. But that doesn't mean they keep me from being at peace with myself or that I have to waste any portion of my day hating or being angry at them or allow them any control over my thoughts and...
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Who is suggesting he gets off?
I'm a rape and a molestation victim. I think we need to bring back flogging in the public square for these bastards in addition to their jail sentence. I'm happy to be on the firing squad for the death penalty.
It's a crime heinous enough that we...
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There is a higher likelihood in any of these cases that a person familiar with the child was the perpertrator. This isn't always true. But everyone close to the child also has to be looked over and excluded. Sadly, that includes the parents.
Here is a horrible thought.
I heard on the news that a child is more likely to be hurt by their own family members or a family friend then a stranger. So, there is a possibility that someone close to the family, that the little girl knew, might have taken her.
I hope not.
I saw the mom on tv.
The cops say that they have no clues.
A professional-along with a good child psychologist- might be able to help the siblings with their memories. Even a small detail could help.