Okay...you guys have posted way too much since I last checked in!
About the commune thing...my friend and I have mentioned doing this with mostly women. You know how it goes...you get angry with your other half and decide that a bunch of women on 15-20 acres can do better without them. Ahhh, we can dream, right? I wear jeans 24/7 and I'm certainly not of the religious sort! And I wear head coverings on bad hair days only.