This sounds like the "Cuppa, cuppa, cuppa" recipe in Steel Magnolias...Dawg.
Two tablespoons cocoa.
Two tablespoons sugar.
One cup of hot milk.
Mix the cocoa and sugar, and then stir in a couple tablespoons of the milk. Mix it until it's smooth, and then stir in the rest.
If you toss all the milk in at once, then the cocoa will be lumpy.

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I saw 'Pomeranian" in his signature
