10 reasons he may not ask you out again - A Guys Perspective

[debilorrah]

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Which is why you are the Recipient of the Biff Twang.

And why neither Debi or I would ever date you

 

[The Chicken Lady]

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Me too.

 

[Boyd]

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Me too.

 

[mom'sfolly]

I don't like #2 much. The person asking does the paying, male or female. An offer of dinner or a movie does not set up a "bought and paid" scenario. An offer of "you wanna grab some coffee sometime" is not the same; then the expectation is to go dutch. I would offer to pay the tip on a date, but no more.

#9, missing his signals would be more of an issue with me. If this is a first date then its supposed to be about getting to know someone, not checking out the moves. So maybe ducking out from that arm is not missing the signal, but is an "ease back, dude". Maybe he is missing a few signals?


This is from an old married woman who has been off the dating scene for a long time. Additionally, when I was dating, I didn't do a lot of conventional dating. We did more group dating, or going for hikes, walks, meeting for dinner or a dance that was part of our college fees. The off campus date was pretty far into the relationship. Even in high school it was a lot of going out with a group and then going off with the "date".

I'm with you other ladies. If I had to get back out there, I'd skip it. Me, the cats and the purple clothes alone at home because dating would just be too scary.