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Yes, yes, and yes, to most of what she said. One thing, too, that a lot of people seem to forget is NO marriage can be 50/50 or 100/100 every single day. There will be day it goes 90/10 or 20/80 or any ridiculous combination thereof. I have HORRIBLE PMS....try something awful to keep it under control but there are days I am an awful person....I don't even like me. Can't imagine how hubby puts up with me. There are days he is stressed and snaps at me for nothing. Same thing. It is all about give and take.....a marriage is not worth it unless both parties are getting something in return but that doesn't mean every day will be equal. I am certain the vast majority of the women on this thread who are being accused of "male bashing" would not trade their husband for the world....some might, but everyone needs to vent sometimes and if they really hated them, open forum would probably not be where they would choose to admit it.
Very well said! If we didn't vent we'd take it out on the hubby when he gets home! So this is a good healthy thread!
Have you tried extra Omega Fatty Acids for your PMS? I read about it the other day and I ordered some from Puritans Pride the same day! I'll try anything! I hate feeling like I should just crawl in ahole and bury my mean self for a few days every month! When It hits I tell hubby that I can't stand to be around myself today so you might as well go enjoy yourself at Walmart. Men don't understand the hormone thing. I tell him its like wanting to claw your own eyes out of your head becuse they hurt fro crying for no reason and you can't stop the way your feel and the horrible mood you're in. You hate yourself. Oh and I'll let you know if the pills help any! We may have to have an "end our PMS thread" sometime!
And I know what I'll be doing when the kids grow up and go away! By then we should have this a working farm and we'll be raising livestock and dogs and with everything that breaks around here we'll never be finished!
Yes, yes, and yes, to most of what she said. One thing, too, that a lot of people seem to forget is NO marriage can be 50/50 or 100/100 every single day. There will be day it goes 90/10 or 20/80 or any ridiculous combination thereof. I have HORRIBLE PMS....try something awful to keep it under control but there are days I am an awful person....I don't even like me. Can't imagine how hubby puts up with me. There are days he is stressed and snaps at me for nothing. Same thing. It is all about give and take.....a marriage is not worth it unless both parties are getting something in return but that doesn't mean every day will be equal. I am certain the vast majority of the women on this thread who are being accused of "male bashing" would not trade their husband for the world....some might, but everyone needs to vent sometimes and if they really hated them, open forum would probably not be where they would choose to admit it.
Very well said! If we didn't vent we'd take it out on the hubby when he gets home! So this is a good healthy thread!
Have you tried extra Omega Fatty Acids for your PMS? I read about it the other day and I ordered some from Puritans Pride the same day! I'll try anything! I hate feeling like I should just crawl in ahole and bury my mean self for a few days every month! When It hits I tell hubby that I can't stand to be around myself today so you might as well go enjoy yourself at Walmart. Men don't understand the hormone thing. I tell him its like wanting to claw your own eyes out of your head becuse they hurt fro crying for no reason and you can't stop the way your feel and the horrible mood you're in. You hate yourself. Oh and I'll let you know if the pills help any! We may have to have an "end our PMS thread" sometime!
And I know what I'll be doing when the kids grow up and go away! By then we should have this a working farm and we'll be raising livestock and dogs and with everything that breaks around here we'll never be finished!
