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I believe most of it comes from how he was raised. And the fact that as teens together, I started out doing everything for him. I have had counseling in the past. Sometime last year I realized I was doing more for him than for I did for the kids since they aren't toddler age kids anymore. I decided to change me and it upsets his balance of control. It's about to get more level around here since I've made progress with babysitting and job searching. I found a local poultry farm that may hire me come next month! The thing is that the owner doesn't have a good reputation himself for hiring 'unreputable' help. Rumors are that he is involved with cock fighting which is something i want no part of. Could I be objective to the fact that birds i care for are possibly being sold to fight? I really don't know. I need a job and i love working with poultry. Owner only keeps games and sells to mexico, hawaii and nationally so that sort of gives credence to the rumors in a way. Decisions, decisions. On a better note dh is talking to me today. And my chickens have all been moved back to their spacious coops. Alligator, a bg mix, was my last hen to start laying. She gave her first egg yesterday evening and another today so even though it's cold I collected 4 eggs from 5 hens laying! I love it Another sense of accomplishment today as Mr. Peck was a tough roo to wrangle but once caught he surrendered. When we got down to the rir coop where his ladies already were he started trying to get away from me. I talked to him but sat in the coop with him on my lap, refusing to let him go until he stopped fighting and relaxed. Hilda got in a quick peck to his leg before he calmed down. When I finally let my arms down he still sat in my lap for a minute, then calmly walked off! I'm really starting to see him differently. Happy cluckin til next time...