WHen my daughter was 2 she would pee in the poty but not poo.. I would tell her that she was in her undies and would need to use the potty. She would come out with a lump in her pants. That went on for about another 6 months and then she finally got over it. My 5 yr old was still in pull ups at 3 and my last son was born right after he turned 3. My hubby went to daycare to tell her that I had gone to the hospital and told out son that there was going to be another baby in the family soon and that we would like him to be a big boy and use the potty. We didnt want 2 babies in the house wearing diapies. He came to the hospital after his brother was born and from that time on has used the potty. He does have an accedent during the night once in a while but that is usually because we forget to tell him to use the bathroom before bed. My son that is a yr and a half is now starting to use the potty. Life is to short to fight with a kid about the potty. I realize if the were 4 or 5 that is one thing but otherwise let them go. My biggest problem now is making sure that the 4 yr old doesnt drop it and pee on a tree at his grandmas that lives in town. lol He has watered the trees a few times and just doesnt understand that it is fine in the country where no one will see you but you cant do it in town.. He is getting better. Jenn