I've been trying to get in touch with 4-H in my area, my own county and the neighboring one. I know I'm going to have extra show quality birds and I want to donate a few, but no one is returning my emails or phone calls. Do I need to know the password? Is this some secret society and if I enter it, I'll have to be killed?? Anyone have a good relationship with theirs? Can you show me the secret handshake?