sfgwife
Crowing
My dad died from Lewy Bodies. It was awful. Gentlest man I’ve ever known, but he came at me with an axe toward the end. Who knows what he thought I was? I took it away—not difficult, but still... After that he went to the hospital, then a nursing home. He died a couple weeks later. I know it’s hard, but try not to explode at her. You’ll feel better later if you don’t... trust me on that one. My mom is dying from Alzheimer’s. I don’t know which is less bad; they’re both horrible. She can be really hateful, too. (Not unusual with Alzheimer’s) It’s so hard to deal with it when someone you love treats you like dirt, even though you know it’s just their brain malfunctioning.
As to the dog, I would deal with it when she can’t see. Maybe your husband can take care of it when you take her to the dentist. Tell her whatever you like... the dog catcher came and impounded it and had it put down. whatever. It doesn’t matter so long as she’s not mad at you guys (not that you can stop her from that if she decides to be.) A dog like that is dangerous enough if the owner knows to keep it in, let alone in your situation. You really do HAVE to deal with the dog. Someone will get hurt, possibly badly hurt.
I’m so sorry you have this to deal with. Definitely not fun.
I dont blow up at her. When i have had absolutely all i can take i walk out to do some random thing. How long after his dx did you have with him? We have read so many different things. A new thing... every time she gets jus a tinny bit of fever or dehydrated she gets the massive crazies and horrible hallucinations. That is hard. We will deal with the dog jus not the way she said.
