I have a friend that has a 14 year old son that is way out of control! She is about fed up with dealing with him. He's LARGE for a 14 year old, 6 feet tall and already weighing over 200lbs and EXTREMELY aggressive. If he doesnt get things his way, he will start destroying the house and hitting his mom and sister. Dad is not in the picture, he refuses to have anything to do with the boy. She tried ROTC to see if that might help but no luck on that. She has tried to encourage him to join maybe football to let all his aggressive out but learn to do it in a possitive way, He refuses. He's lazy, he refuses to help with anything, he skips school or causes mom (a school bus driver) to run late on her routes in the morning. She asked my husband and his father to help put a positive male figure out for him but after over a year, things just get worse. She is SCARED of her own SON! Anyone have any ideas what might help her out? She is coming to a point where she feels she might have to go ahead and call the cops the next time he blows but she really doesn't want to go that far. Also, we been looking online for boot camps for troubled boys and everything we found isn't what we are looking for or costs WAY too much $$$ for a part time working mom. HELP PLEASE!