We found out the other day we are going to be parents! We are completely excited about it, even though it is totally unexpected. We were planning to start having kids in a year or two, but we are absolutely thrilled with having one sooner. My wife has some medical problems that may prevent her from getting pregnant and we were totally shocked, especially being on BC. We are so blessed that God gave us the chance so unexpectedly! So today I called and told my family, and I got a surprising reaction. None of them seemed thrilled. Only person that sent their prayers and congratulated us was my sister-in-law. Rest of the conversations were awkward silences and they didn't say much. It kind of hurt me and it makes me wonder why this is the case. We are both married for two years and been together for six years, she is 24 and i am 29. we have a wonderful marriage and we are best friends. i just dont know....so little words of encouragement and congratulating from my BYC would totally uplift me!