Congratulations!! First of all, the only people who's feelings truly matter in this case is yours and your wife's.
That being said, it is nice to have the support of your family. I agree that maybe since you weren't actually "trying" yet, your family members were just surprised. Maybe they were concerned about your wife's medical condition in regards to getting pregnant that you said she had. Not sure. My family was surprised by my first pregnancy, since I never even cared for kids, lol! My dad was a little taken aback, and said " I'm too young to be a grandfather!" Guess who spoils my girls the most? I wouldn't worry about it too much just yet. I think once the news sets in, they will come around. When baby is born, you'll see big tough guys melt. My husband's side is baby crazy, so the news of a baby was absolutely thrilling to them. My family, on the other hand, was a little different. Not that they weren't happy for us, they are just not baby people. All the relatives adore my girls, though, and treat them great. Don't let family bring you down during this exciting life changing time. Enjoy it, and be sure to spoil your wife!!!

