Like I have said before, silkies arent supposed to have a huge crest, the standard calls for a medium crest, not large, medium. Everyone is breeding them with giant crests and seem to be focusing on that alone, crest and beard size, not body size or anything, mainly that. As far as the showing thing goes the best way to deal with that is to not breed birds with huge crests, breed to the standard, not to the judges prefference. Wyandottes went through a similar thing with tails, the judges were placing the bunny tailed wyandottes which is a big no-no. So breeders started breeding for the bunny/cochin tails and away from the standard. There were people that didnt care about winning with those kind of birds, they bred to the standard and not the judges, now the judges are placing the proper birds. So if you breed good silkies with medium crests and proper size and type the judges will hopefully realize that and place your strain over others.