Huh, you're right. I never really thought of it like that or that we were teaching him to do exactly what we don't want.... we gotta work on that.
Although tbh we kinda like him coming to the door because we, and especially my dad, like to hook him up, go watch TV or do something and then get him when he's ready. He also thinks it's perfectly fine to let him bark and bark since he's "doing his job" whereas we go get him immediately. And often he barks at nothing and is annoying. Doesn't matter..
But I suppose if he's to learn COME (or the new word), we need to make some changes.
But also honestly he really doesn't go outside that much, a few times a day maybe, and he sleeps on the bed mostly, so we don't mind just letting him out to get some fresh air and coming in when he's ready. But again, if it means he's not going to listen to come then we'll change it. Besides, going outside on his own shouldn't be his only stimulation. If we start doing stuff with him then going outside for shorter times shouldn't be such a big deal. Plus sometimes we want to go somewhere and let him out quick and he takes his sweet time.... he usually pees immediately but won't poo for a while cause he obnoxiously takes his time. Also my dad lets him out every time he smokes, which is a lot, which I hate. He doesn't need to go out 5 million times a day. Yet whenever he smokes, Gator leaps up.
I always thought the coming in when he's ready thing was like wow he's such a good boy and so smart, doesn't cause trouble, just does his own thing and comes in when he's ready, which is true in a way, but I realize now he also simultaneously makes up his own rules and ignores us.
In fact, he used to growl when you tried to make him come in. Mostly when you got close and tried to grab the rope or collar and drag him in though, which is kind of mean in itself. But that's part of why I started reeling him in with the longer rope - he can't get you from far away.
So I'm not sure if getting him would work but I'm also not sure if he would still growl.
But either way, I guess we need to break that too if he still does it, which I don't know.
I'm going to start changing the command and actually enforcing it now.
Thanks!
Oh and also maybe give him something to do other than just sit outside and/or bark.
I feel bad forcing him to come in though because he just loves it out there and doesn't get to go out that much.
But maybe I could reach some sort of compromise? Like leave him out a decent amount of time but let him in when I want him to/say so instead of him? Plus doing other fun stuff?
I think moving more would be good for his hips too