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Going to try to say this in a nice way. If your standing there like a Jay Bird and that's the only response you got, then we need to look deeper and find out what's going on. If you weren't Jay Birdin it, I would try that (of course when the children are asleep). If he doesn't respond to that, then I would ask him why he has NO interest. That's not normal male behavior.
Men do have thier Peaks and Off Peaks though. I do not know how old he is, but my husband hit is Off Peak when he was around 40ish. But, alot of stress can also play into this factor. My husband was working 16+ hours a day and was exhausted.
When you have kids, you have to learn how to make time for each other. You can get lost very quickly.
As for the Mother, you do not have to play her head games.
Going to try to say this in a nice way. If your standing there like a Jay Bird and that's the only response you got, then we need to look deeper and find out what's going on. If you weren't Jay Birdin it, I would try that (of course when the children are asleep). If he doesn't respond to that, then I would ask him why he has NO interest. That's not normal male behavior.
Men do have thier Peaks and Off Peaks though. I do not know how old he is, but my husband hit is Off Peak when he was around 40ish. But, alot of stress can also play into this factor. My husband was working 16+ hours a day and was exhausted.
When you have kids, you have to learn how to make time for each other. You can get lost very quickly.
As for the Mother, you do not have to play her head games.