I'm in! All my girl friends use me as protection because I'm tougher than they are, but I am still female and love being so! I just don't act all girly. I love fishing, and mud boggs, ATVing, the woods, and all of that stuff. (also a football nut: GO GIANTS!!!) but that doesn't mean I'm not feminine too. I do my hair up when I feel like it, dance my booty off when the passion strikes me and tuck my dog into his blankie too! I don't think you have to be one or the other. I'm both tough and chika-chika and proud of it!!!