I guess I should clearify that I was speaking mainly about meat birds, in particular. I do enjoy a good snuggle with my gals, dont get me wrong. But they are here for eggs. When they are no longer laying, I plan to rehome them to a chicken sanctuary near me I found called "Spent Chickens". They take in hens that no longer lay, and some older or extra roosters. I've already spoken to them.
Am I doing this because I consider the hens my pets, no. But also, I have heard that a "dried up" hen isnt worth the trouble to try and eat anyway, and because, yes, by that time I suppose I will have some major attachment issues with them and would love them to live out their days foraging and enjoying life.
However, being in 4h, we are not raising these chickens for pets, we are raising them for a laying flock, and I cant keep around hens that are no longer laying. I wont cull them, or eat them, but they can not stay here. They will be replaced with a younger group that my children and I intend to hatch out and raise ourselves every year. My children love the chickens, but even they know why they are here.