There you go, Shelley, GET MAD and don't give up- your husband would be wise to find a fun and rewarding past time such as you and your son have.
I saw the saddest post on CL the past two days, a woman stating she was selling off all her birds because she was tired of the fighting since her hub was unemployed?!? If he had a lick of sense he'd have realized she was happy, home, and they could always have eggs and meat to eat, no matter what! Turkeys...quail...chicken...GEESE...people pay to eat that well! And he didn't want it in their yard?!? No comon sense at all...and she's giving up, unhappy and doomed to stay unhappy now with no happy hobby, no fresh eggs, etc.
I'd sleep out there, myself and be ready to get whatever was after mine and I'd have one of my dogs w/me since they can smell and hear so much better than we can...teach your son to fight for what is his, not to give up, your beautiful roo was and is totally worth it and so is the future of your son's decisions in life...BIG HUGS and chin up!
My eldest daughter, the other day was trying very hard not to cry and only one tear escaped...she said; Mom, I'm tired of wearing the pants! I want my hub to start wearing the pants instead of a mama's boy... I'm sorry I said and I smiled and laughed! I said: The women in our family have ALWAYS worn the pants and WE LOVE IT

She had to laugh at that

But its time to have a family chat and tell him to "try on those pants," see how they feel, how they fit...once in a while! LOL