I dont know whether to laugh, hug you, or cry with you. You get me.I get it!! I was diagnosed with Stage 4 kidney disease in January of 2020. That news hit me like a ton of bricks…it came out of nowhere. The scariest part was that just a few years before, I had lost my beloved sister Linda after she’d been on dialysis for 4 years. Now, her situation was different….she’d had emergency surgery for a ruptured abdominal aortic aneurysm and while they were able to repair that, the surgery threw an embolism shower into her kidneys and they died, quite literally overnight. Christmas Day she had kidneys, the day after Christmas she didn’t. My kidney disease was a slow, insidious disease process that I didn’t even suspect. The intelligent, adult side of me recognized the difference, but the emotional side of me was still bleeding from the heart at losing Linda, and terrified. I don’t have Linda’s strength and courage, and I couldn’t face the instant and awful lifestyle changes she faced with the dignity and grace that she had.
Suddenly I had to research and read everything I could find. Like Linda, I also have heart disease, so I have to find a way to balance my cardio diet with my kidney diet. The two often conflict, making that balance hard to find. So I talked it to death. I even started a thread here, hoping to get and share ideas with others. I‘d had a little practice - when we’d go back to visit Linda as often as we could, I’d take her grocery shopping. When she wasn’t up to it, I shopped for her myself. I fixed meals that she could eat and that she could enjoy. Her diet was much more rigid than mine, of course, because while I have some kidney function she had absolutely none. While my heart disease has been treated with a few stents and medications, she required a triple bypass just two years after her aneurism. But the basics are the same.
So you go right ahead and keep posting. Sometimes solution or ideas hit you even as you type. Ever had that happen? You’re helping others understand the limitations posed by gluten sensitivity and Celiac. Sharing is caring!

I'm so sorry for your loss,

And I get it. Kiddo was a preemie with health problems from moment one. Every time the Peds handed down some new scary diagnoses (there are still whole lot more than diet issues) I struggled, then threw myself into the research and learning process.
Yep, brainstorming and typing (or talking) things out makes me think of new things, ideas, or solutions.