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Thanks Maple,
As for the SSI, my wife has been trying for a couple years to get it and they just give her the runaround. She has COPD and another breathing thing I know I can't spell. Only had 40% use of her lungs a couple years ago, and I know she's worse now. She has to take a whole bag full of different pills each day, has 4 inhalers she has to use daily, can't even play with the kids without getting to huffing and wheezing and trying to find her emergency inhaler... you get the picture, and she's only 38 years old. She also has sleep apnea (? not sure on the spelling) and is on medication for depression and other mental health issues. We know several people getting SSI who are in perfect health, except for lazyitous (Some are even kin to us). They give them a check every month and they will not even help my wife who worked all her life and is really sick... can you tell that's a sore spot with me?
We "earn too much" for any kind of assitance, or so they tell my wife. It doesn't feel that way as I pay most of my emplyees more than I get to take home after taxes. I never tried to get any help myself, just wasn't raised that way. We were raised to work for what we got, but my wife has tried everything just to get help with her medicines. I hate
wal-mart with a passion, but thanks to them she gets several of her medications for like $7.00 now that used to cost me $300.00 plus per month.
Myself, I'm not disabled. Headstrong, stubbern, bull-headed... yeah, I'll own up to that, but I can work most of the time and I'm one of those crazy people that LIKES to work. I get bored if I have to sit still.
My family doctor is great. We just love him to pieces. But the heart doctor is the meanest, most hateful piece of work I've ever met. Everyone around here agrees he's the best around this area, but...
I don't have a problem with tests being run... just think up some new ones darn it, I'm tired of paying for the same old tests, getting the same results, year after year. Plus, they already told me there is nothing they can do.
Acually, I'm very much at peace with dying when my time rolls around, it's the recovery time that's driving me bats! I faced all my demons years ago. I've lived a good life, raised 5 great kids, married and been loved by a wonderful woman, been everywhere, done about everything (Some of which I shouldn't have done
) there is to do, I've rode bulls, fought men, been loved, sailed the ocean, climbed mountains, made wonderful freinds, seen the miracle of chilbirth, bleed, laughed, cried, saved lives, seen beauty, and loved ever minute of it.
Everybody dies... not everybody truely lives...
I've lived!