We were supposed to go to our orientation to get licensed to foster/adopt shortly after the loss of my first pregancy. I cancelled it. I don't know what we'll do now. Hubby being ever optimistic thinks that we'll get pregnant again in no time. Me, the eternal pesimist has no idea what to think.
I was really looking forward to starting on the path to adopt a child, we've been trying for seven years for a baby of our own, and then we got pregnant, and then lost it. I am still kind of in shock. I'm trying to talk about adoption, but my head is just not there...
We started through an agency, the reason we were going the foster/adopt route is honestly because of money. It's very expensive to privately adopt, though there are grants, and now I understand there may be tax insentives?? don't know about that one though. So we haven't gotten very far in the process, but if you have any questions I'll try to help. I did talk, in length, with one off the case workers with the agency and she clarified a lot of questions I had, which at the time I can't really remember the main concerns or questions that I asked her...