Anyone ever criticize you about having to many animals...

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Mar 3, 2009
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I just have to vent because my family is constantly getting on my nerves about my animals. For a few years I just had chickens. Then I expanded to ducks and geese. Those were all originally for eggs. Last year I started with nigerian dwarf goats for milk and bees for honey. This year I plan on getting 25 to 50 ducks and chickens for meat. I enjoy the self-sufficient lifestyle and making my own food. My family enjoys the eggs and more recently the meat from my culled roosters. And yet, they keep telling me I have too many animals. I don't understand how they can say I have too many animals then partake in the foods that my animals produce. It's so frustrating when I told my mom I was getting 25 meat ducks, in the same sentence she tells me that I need to stop getting animals and oh, so we're going to be eating a lot of duck?! Um, I am! Not you! And when my family hears about these "large" shipments of animals I am getting soon. They don't seem to realize that they are not pets that will be here foreever but will be gone in 2 months.

And also being the only one in my family with land and farm animals, my family to come over my house and see them and take pictures and take their products and still tell me I have too many. This whole situation has me losing my mind! Anyone else have friends or family like this?
 
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Yep, me!
 
Yes, it is a constant battle. They are constantly criticizing and making fun of me having the birds. I come from a farming background even! I think chickens/ducks/etc.. are the low ones on the totem pole of livestock. They are just not seen in the same light as other animals. Even when I had goats growing up, it was something that was laughed at. It is just not seen the same as pigs, cattle, sheep, etc...
 
"If I didnt have so many, I couldn't share them with you". You're right they don't think about them as food so 25 seems like a swarm, many people today will tell you food comes from the store.
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Yup, but they do not how to grow, harvest, forage, or hunt their own food. But since I love them anyway, when the zombies come I will still let the be part of my serfdom.
 
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You are more of a softie at heart than I am.

If you like taking home food from my farm, do not tell me to get rid of my animals! Those animals are some of the same animals that you take home to eat.
I am a practical sort of person, My job is to provide for my family.
If I can do what you have been doing, my family will feel Blessed!

If your family continues to tell you to get rid of your animals - I'd forget they were getting any meat from me, including eggs!
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That's how I feel!
I wouldn't put up with your family's version of "wine and dine", towards you.
 
Anyone ever criticize you about having to many animals...

Nope.

I don't hear certain subjects of conversation, so even if they did, I wouldn't have heard it.​
 

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