elizabeth, as much as it kills you throw those cakes and pastry in the trash.. it took money and time to make them but if it is hurting your hubby then get rid of them.. i have found most husbands will eat what they have rather than make something for them selves. i am at the end of day 4 and i am finding i am not hungry.. if i eat a lean cuisine i am full after 1/2 and need nothing till dinner and then just a couple of bites.. i hate this part because i will go into starvation mode if i don't force myself to eat.. ugh.. hopefully it will pass soon.. gl all and keep up the good work