Well, this is definitely the place for grandparents! We have a huge snowbird season, so we have a LOT of R.V. parks, 55 and older parks, and 'senior citizen communities'. We have 3 museums, lots of golfing, lots of swimming pools, lots of restaurants (good and bad), lots of shopping, lots of hotels. We have some good doctors and some bad doctors. We are 2 to 3 hours away from Scripps in San Diego and the major treatment centers in Phoenix, and we do have our own hospital. Yuma has expanded a lot in the past 10 years to accommodate all the people that came from California and the Phoenix area. That is when houses all over the US sold for too much. As a result, we got a lot more of the chains like Home Depot, Kohl's, and Circuit City. We are a border city and it shows. There are so many Hispanics, they are the majority.
Best things about Yuma:
1. It's still NOT a really big city.
2. December through March are GORGEOUS.
3. Senior citizens (honestly, they're friendlier than everyone else)
4. You can still buy rural homes that are within a few miles of town, some with many neighbors, some with none or few.
5. It never, ever snows.
Worst things about Yuma:
1. July through September are HOTTER than most people can imagine.
2. Your choice for electricity is APS, or APS, or APS.
3. Customer service is laughable, if you weren't so angry. (Not everywhere, but there are stores I won't go into anymore because of this.)
4. The Foothills traffic when snowbirds are here. Avoid it.
5. It never, ever snows.
If they move here, let me know and I'll tell you the best local restaurants. They're not on those review websites, fortunately! We don't want to wait longer for a table so Mr. Scottsdale and Ms. San Diego can finish their food!
Look, I don't know if it's the same everywhere, but from first-hand knowledge, don't ever let your grandparents go into a nursing home here. What nobody thinks of is that the same people that are rude to you behind the perfume counter here are the same people that will be taking 24 hour care of your loved one. Have them move in with you, or something, ANYTHING but go into one of those places here. Just a thought you might have in mind when you all come to conclusions.