What doc? I can't get him to agree to go to see one yet.After the covid scare maybe he should talk to his Doc, see what his options are, all options, including do nothing and die, And let him pick how he wants to handle the problem. That way you aren't making him, he is in charge of making his own decision, and hopefully he makes a good one. But he has to make a decision and let everyone know what it is!!
His decision is to be buried in a particular cemetery.