I find myself using "male" a lot for the same reasons you describe. I try to type the correct terms but personally I use male and female and bird a lot, not because I don't know the correct terms but just because when I started with poultry, I was brought up by folks (myself soon included) that raised chickens, ducks, geese and turkeys do it was easier in conversation to do that rather than cock, hen, cockerel, pullet, drake, duck, gander, goose, tom, hen, chick, duckling, gosling, poult. Oh and we had pigeon people in the group too and I won't pretend to know what those correct terms are.