Broken Heart...please help me. update pg 5

[snowydiamonds]

Guys like the chase, they especially want something other guys have or enjoy...do not forget this! Go hang out with GUYS and ignore him, have TOO much fun, it'll get back to him and he'll come back wondering exactly what he's missing out on and then toy with him, like fishing...until you land him IF you want to land him!

(Sorry guys, its true!) Otherwise, you're just a wet washrag to them to hang up on the wall...gotta be sweet, happy, interesting and Busy! Get Busy GIRL!

 

[JennsPeeps]

Worst part about kissing frogs is the after-taste.

 

[maplesky7]

I'd say leave it alone.

He may have someone else he's interested in and couldn't decide? could be one of the other reasons he hasn't called back.

Maybe he decided he and you were not compatible and decided to call it quits. Only he really knows right now.

At any rate, acknowledge the fact, barring should there have been an accident or death to a loved one or something really big came up at work that has swallowed his time....that people come and people go. And you are worthy. You are worthy of love and affection. You are worthy to spend time with and are a joy to be around. You are worthy of a phone call or that time before he said good bye the last to say, I had a great time but this wasn't meant to be. Sorry to have led you on...and it was really great getting to know you. period. something. right?

But not everyone has the nerve to say something they think would hurt the other one.

You are a strong woman. Look at all you have going for you. Look at the lovely person you are. I tell ya, your worthy. So I won't say don't be sad....but don't let it tear at you too long ok? It's hard sometimes. But be glad that it has ended now if it were going to end, instead of a year or more from now when your heart would have been more invested in to the relationship. You know? Be glad that you were saved from a person so insensitive. 2 months is not a long time to know a person's true colors. And don't be fooled by this man if he calls you back and gives you some lame excuse either.

Guard yourself and protect yourself and don't be swooned back into something because you crave it. Have patience and have careful consideration about the choices in your life. Because......you are worthy.


Love in Christ,
Gretchen

 

[LovinMyChickies]

BabyChick,

Listen to all of these caring people. They are speaking to you from their own experiences. We've all been there at some point in our lives.

Just reading your post brings me back to a time in my life where I felt exactly as you do. You are not alone.

This is a little trick that worked for me. Tell yourself that you will not think about this anymore today. Tell yourself that you will think about it tomorrow.
Then tomorrow, do the same thing. On the nest day, do it again. You'll be amazed at how fast the pain goes away doing this daily.

If that does'nt work, talk and get a hug from someone you are close to. It helps to talk about it.

You take care of yourself,

Jackie

 

[WriterofWords]

Like someone else said, make sure he's not in the hospital and been hit by a bus or something.... Then pat yourself on the back and thank heavens you dodged a bullet there. I'm glad his true colors showed before you could do anything irreversible. He could be running scared too, but he could have handled it a lot better. You are woman, roar!

I Am Woman!

(Helen Reddy and Ray Burton)
I am woman, hear me roar
In numbers too big to ignore
And I know too much to go back an' pretend
'Cause I've heard it all before
And I've been down there on the floor
No one's ever gonna keep me down again

Oh yes, I am wise
But it's wisdom born of pain
Yes, I've paid the price
But look how much I gained
If I have to
I can do anything
I am strong (strong)
I am invincible (invincible)
I am woman

You can bend but never break me
'Cause it only serves to make me
More determined to achieve my final goal
And I come back even stronger
Not a novice any longer
'Cause you've deepened the conviction in my soul

Oh, yes, I am wise
But it's wisdom born of pain
Yes, I've paid the price
But look how much I gained
If I have to
I can face anything
I am strong (strong)
I am invincible (invincible)
I am woman

I am woman watch me grow
See me standing toe to toe
As I spread my lovin' arms across the land
But I'm still an embryo
With a long, long way to go
Until I make my brother understand

Oh, yes, I am wise
But it's wisdom born of pain
Yes, I've paid the price
But look how much I gained
If I have to
I can face anything
I am strong (strong)
I am invincible (invincible)
I am woman

Oh, I am woman
I am invincible
I am strong

I am woman
I am invincible
I am strong
I am woman

 

[MagsC]

You are probably lucky you found this out now than later.

However, I understand how it still can hurt.

 

[ZepChick]

Ouch... you deserve a guy who will treat you like a princess. Please take this as a good sign in a way you are free to all those good guys out there. I hate when guys do that, so definitely lose his number if he hasn't been injured or had a family emergency.

 

[hypnofrogstevie]

I know how you feel (except other way around). I met this girl and she was so sweet. We where at the warren county fair and laid next to eachother while the fireworks where being shot off. Kissed eachother good bye and got eachothers cell #. Day after she said we where "good friends". I just hung up and forgot what happened the night before. Just give yourself a while before you date again. I know its painful but just remember. With every break up your heart will get stronger and stronger.

 

[QuailHollow]

Quote:
Girl, I think you need to read Greg Behrendt's book, "He's Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys." I've read it, and it changed my whole perspective on dating and men.

Chapter One: He's just not that into you if he's not asking you out. "Because if he likes you, trust me, he will ask you out."
Read the Chapter here: <http://www.usatoday.com/life/books/excerpts/2004-09-08-hes-just_x.htm>
I hope it helps. Edited to add:

Sam

 

[joebryant]

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