Broken Heart...please help me. update pg 5

[hypnofrogstevie]

Joe,

Yes this is a chicken forum but this is in the off topic section called ME, my chickens, and my family.

 

[joebryant]

Edited by staff

Please review the rules..it is inappropriate to flame members. This is a social category..if you don't want to read it, move on to the next post.

 

[hypnofrogstevie]

It dont matter. Anything can be off topic. I asked about which ford F series truck to get. Nothing to do about chickens and this is not a truck forum but I got some help. This person was looking for some kind words to cheer her up.

 

[AllChookUp]

Joe - I kinda agreed with you in that this is WAY off-topic from chickens, but I have to point out 2 quick things:

1) The girl is obviously devastated and needs an outlet. This is a "family" for her.

and

2) Nobody's making you read the thread.

I've always loved your sense of humor (even tho I give you a lot of cr@p), and I respect you, but I had to point those 2 things out.

Peace out.

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[maplesky7]

"and a friend's a friend forever if the Lords the Lord of them. And a friend can not say never cause the welcome will not end."

me,
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[hypnofrogstevie]

I am in no way trying to start an argument but if you want to post something like then then go ahead. I have been on here for over a year and seen so many post that has nothing to do with chickens. a few about break ups. I agree that no one is forcing you to read or post in this thread but you should not post negative stuff in anothers post. On another forum I am on its called "thread cra**ing"

 

[leslie]

All of your problem can be handled by the Lord in Heaven. He waits for your request. His answers always come. Yes, No and Maybe are his chosen answers, but he does answer them. Its up to you and your intelligence to distinquist which answer he has given. But pray on it.. long enough and strong enough and one of the answers will be given to you.
I would think that you are young. Anyone older than 20 would know that this is the learning stage of life. Get used to it. Disapointments come to all and the way we handle them as youth develops character and strength for when a real problem comes along and trust an old woman...this is not a problem. Its one of Gods mini test. or many test.. whatever
not that I want to minimize it. certainly I know that it fills your mind and its painful. But you are not worrying about your son in Iraq. Your son is not being shot at every second of his life. Bombs are not going off near him on any se cond of the day.
Your mother does not have breast cancer.. your sister is not paralyzed from depression and lying in a pool of blood from a razor.
put it in perspective. Darling young woman you do not have a probllem.
Hey i guess I am considering it not much of a problem. sorry soon you will realize that also.

 

[Buff Hooligans]

If he's not calling:

He's learned enough about the two of you together to realize it's not a good idea to carry on, which is a blessing for YOU in the long run!

OR

He's found somebody more interesting (or who will "put out" if that's what he really wants) in which case, seeya bye.

You should know that most men don't like confrontations, especially emotional ones with women. They like to ignore things and hope the problem or issue will go away by itself. There's nothing wrong with that, it's just a different way to cope with unpleasantness.

Us women, on the other hand, like to hash things to death until everybody's just so sick of it they could spit. Sometimes we women could learn a thing or two from men.

Just listen to loud music in your car and watch a lot of really absorbing movies until you don't miss him anymore.

Best of luck. Better things are ahead.

 

[WoodlandWoman]

My basic understanding of most people is this:

When a woman wants to break up with a man, she usually feels more of a need to tell him that she is breaking up with him and why.

A man usually just wants to walk out the door like nothing is going on and never come back or call again. Contacting him to ask why, will generally provide no useful information.

I'm very sorry this happened to you. Trying to find the right person to share a life with can be a pretty tough process to go through. :aww

 

[AllChookUp]

Holy moley, do I feel like dirt just for being a man.

But most of the observations are right - Men are less inclined to want to talk about ending relationships. That doesn't mean we don't want to know "why".

Hang in there, Samantha. Someone better will be along before you know it.



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