Well you all know the familial tug of war (Please don't move) I'm having. My parents sent my daughter a letter (!!!) about if the 3 great grandkids don't thank them for their xmas money, there won't be any more. My daughter's upset because not once have they visited her in san Antonio even tho they fly over it several times a year on their way to Vegas. So they really don't have any relationship between my daughter's kids and my parents. (We'll send them money but we don't want to be involved personally).