Handling the chicks is not the problem. Spoiling and letting the chicken be in charge is the basis for the "some say never to hand-raise a cockerel". In the end, each bird is an individual. While generalizations can be discussed, you need to deal with the individual. Some roosters are more difficult than others. IF he is too much to deal with--gone. A breed stay sociable and tender because those that are not--gone.I'm hoping! I hear mixed things about roos. Some say the sweetest cockerels turn out to be mean roosters and some say never to hand-raise a cockerel. I didn't know he was a boy until WAY after I handled the chicks. All the Buffs were so sweet. Pretty much everyone is in agreement that Buffs are a sociable and tender breed so I have hope that he will be strong but tolerable. So far so good.