BYC Café

[Ladies-Eight]

The burial went well yesterday. We even helped Skittles toss a rose into the grave. We all took turns with the shovels and closed it ourselves too. We all said a few words to both of them and it was a very good "service" that offered a little more closure.

I feel like I'm in a fog, who did you have burial service for?

 

[Sally PB]

Very as long as the chickens aren't exposed.

True! Owl was off to the east, chickens' coop and run are covered and secure on the west side of the house.

 

[DobieLover]

I feel like I'm in a fog, who did you have burial service for?

You're just late to the Café.
My dad died 6 years ago this December and his cremains have been moving closet to closet with my mom as she moved which always irritated me.
Mom died on Memorial Day this year and I had my good sister get Dad when she got Mom's files from her house and away from psycho sister the day after mom died.
Mom was also cremated and I placed her urn next to Dad's when we got her back. I've had them with me for 4 months.
There's a lot of very painful history there that I will be recovering from for years to come.

 

[Ladies-Eight]

You're just late to the Café.
My dad died 6 years ago this December and his cremains have been moving closet to closet with my mom as she moved which always irritated me.
Mom died on Memorial Day this year and I had my good sister get Dad when she got Mom's files from her house and away from psycho sister the day after mom died.
Mom was also cremated and I placed her urn next to Dad's when we got her back. I've had them with me for 4 months.
There's a lot of very painful history there that I will be recovering from for years to come.

Thanks for explaining.

Sorry for the painful memories, but we all have them.

 

[Jenbirdee]

Family birthday party here last night - whew - was up late and found out that my dog (who is so good with ducks and chickens) really does not like other dogs to visit us.

 

[Jenbirdee]

You're just late to the Café.
My dad died 6 years ago this December and his cremains have been moving closet to closet with my mom as she moved which always irritated me.
Mom died on Memorial Day this year and I had my good sister get Dad when she got Mom's files from her house and away from psycho sister the day after mom died.
Mom was also cremated and I placed her urn next to Dad's when we got her back. I've had them with me for 4 months.
There's a lot of very painful history there that I will be recovering from for years to come.

 

[sourland]

Good morning, and thanks for the coffee.

 

[Mtn Margie]

Hugs, DL.
Cold with a drizzle here so the first fire of the season is starting up in the wood stove. Top that off with some hot coffee and we have a plan until noon.
Shopping went well yesterday and MORF stocked up on food. Good thing we went out for lunch before the grocery store run!
Enjoy the day, Cafe!

 

[LaFleche]

MORF

Who or what is MORF?

 

[Packy]

You're just late to the Café.
My dad died 6 years ago this December and his cremains have been moving closet to closet with my mom as she moved which always irritated me.
Mom died on Memorial Day this year and I had my good sister get Dad when she got Mom's files from her house and away from psycho sister the day after mom died.
Mom was also cremated and I placed her urn next to Dad's when we got her back. I've had them with me for 4 months.
There's a lot of very painful history there that I will be recovering from for years to come.

Thank you for the coffee.

Gave them my 2 weeks notice, and they said I had vacation left over so have a good week?

I understand I carried my mom around for nearly 16 years, not because of letting go but she needed to be someplace special. My ex wife was not a nice person and I stayed for my son, gave up a lot of friendships and my sister who lived 7 hours away.
Right after the separation my sister niece and I went to OC MD. for a long weekend. Mom loved it there at a place on the board walk called Plim Plaza. An older hotel lined with rocking chairs facing the ocean, there's a sand artist who sculps religious scenes from the bible. So our visit during off season we scattered her ashes as she loved it their and the beach.