BYC Café

[3goodeggs]

Change is not always bad.. or permanent.
And, even if you don't have chickens, you know you always have us. There is a special seat at this café just for you.

 

[sourland]

Hey, Krista,

. We're still here for you. Good luck if you are 'house hunting' today.

 

[Mtn Margie]

We have faith in you Krista! We are sitting around this table because we come from a long line of "adaptables."

 

[sourland]

RANT!

It's a beautiful weekend day here in W central NJ. Just got back from doing a favor for a friend. Our windy country roads are filled with phalanxes of bicyclists five abreast across the roads.

Do they really think they are invulnerable? Or have those hard bike seats destroyed their brains along with other 'things'?

 

[MissWiggles]

I've had a time or two where I have felt like a little boat tossed about in a big sea. It's not too much fun, that's for sure. But then I met my DH (after 19 years in a not so great marriage). He never seemed to worry about anything. He always tells me "God has a plan". It took me awhile, but I think he is right. All the things I was worried about (and I worry A LOT) seemed to work out just fine.

It's ok to worry and be upset, but that after a while it doesn't help. Just remember God has a plan, even if you don't know what it is.

 

[drumstick diva]

I'm a very good worrier, got that from my mom. I was so good at it, she didn't have to bother worrying any more. Not only that I seem to be contagious - people spending too much time around me (like maybe 20 minutes) cower and crawl away with worries that never had till I pointed them out. IT is true that most of the things you worry about will never happen. So I HAVE to worry or THAT won't come to pass. See my predic?ament

 

[krista74]

Hi everyone.

Thank you for your support. I am accepting of our situation and I can even see that potentially this could be the beginning of a wonderful life together for hubby and I, away from the stress and constant demand of his family farm. It will also be a much more secure financial future for us, and I am very grateful that hubby has been offered the opportunity he has. I think I am just very stressed and very worried. The IVF is a big demand both physically and emotionally on it's own - and now we have a 3 hour move, a new job, the loss of the chooks and packing etc to bring on board too. I can't help but feel anxious, which I know is wrong, but how do you stop worrying? It's just my nature. Anyway, I am very grateful of your support and patience with me at this time, and am so happy I will still be welcome at the café table, even though I will no longer have my feather babies.

I am having a quiet, 'at home' day today before a big day of house hunting tomorrow. Yesterday hubby and I found THE PERFECT house online, a 10 minute walk from his new job. Even better, it is UNDER what we had budgeted for, so we are desperate to get it. As we have 2 cats this will be a tough place to get, but hubby and I are going to offer up a double bond payment to see if that will sway the owner into taking us on. Fingers crossed, as it is a lovely place, in a great location. No chickens of course, but I think we could be very happy there. The town is quite isolated but I expect demand for this particular property will be high as it's so cheap. Anyway, we are good people with a solid rental reference history, and we are both professionally employed, so maybe on paper we will look ok? I'll keep you posted.

Krista x

 

[scottcaddy]

, we are good people with a solid rental reference history, and we are both professionally employed, so maybe on paper we will look ok? I'll keep you posted.
Hi everyone.

Thank you for your support. I am accepting of our situation and I can even see that potentially this could be the beginning of a wonderful life together for hubby and I, away from the stress and constant demand of his family farm. It will also be a much more secure financial future for us, and I am very grateful that hubby has been offered the opportunity he has. I think I am just very stressed and very worried. The IVF is a big demand both physically and emotionally on it's own - and now we have a 3 hour move, a new job, the loss of the chooks and packing etc to bring on board too. I can't help but feel anxious, which I know is wrong, but how do you stop worrying? It's just my nature. Anyway, I am very grateful of your support and patience with me at this time, and am so happy I will still be welcome at the café table, even though I will no longer have my feather babies.

I am having a quiet, 'at home' day today before a big day of house hunting tomorrow. Yesterday hubby and I found THE PERFECT house online, a 10 minute walk from his new job. Even better, it is UNDER what we had budgeted for, so we are desperate to get it. As we have 2 cats this will be a tough place to get, but hubby and I are going to offer up a double bond payment to see if that will sway the owner into taking us on. Fingers crossed, as it is a lovely place, in a great location. No chickens of course, but I think we could be very happy there. The town is quite isolated but I expect demand for this particular property will be high as it's so cheap. Anyway

Krista x

You Go Girl!!
Scott

 

[drumstick diva]

Krista one caveat - WHY is the property underpriced??

 

[scottcaddy]

Krista one caveat - WHY is the property underpriced??

Maybe they don't allow pet chickens?
Scott